Response to comments on black and white thinking

Grey does seem to be a new favorite color because black and white are too taxing. As far as what do I think is successful- I have no freakin clue. I have this "destination addiction" that I am trying to overcome now. I got this from my father. He was never satisfied with where he was at, and kept tyring to get higher and higher, never actually finding happiness. I know that I need to be happy with whatever I have and wherever I am in life. I am working on that at the present time... I am trying to stop and smell the roses.